Reverse Psychology on Women
This article will cover how to use reverse psychology on women. But before that, I wanted to mention that I got a few replies from my last article. I’ll summarize what most of them said.
“Hey man. How is this about getting game? This is just some fancy way of saying be polite and be a gentlemen. We’ve heard all that stuff before. How does that help… blah blah blah”
You get the picture.
I said that being in control was the first step to getting game. It forms the base of the darker knowledge I pass onto you. At first I didn’t want to scare people off.
Remember how I told you that you have to control your emotions? I told you to put a lid on feelings such as anger and jealousy so as to not screw up. Therefore the result is a cool, calm collected man with politeness and manners.
However, you’re still in control. Meaning now there is room for other areas. Darker ones.
Before you read on any further I must know that you have dominated yourself. You are the master; you are in control. Because now you’re going to potentially feel negative emotions such as guilt and self-hate for what I’m about to teach.
Got it? Let’s go.
Players Vs. Wannabes
Now it’s no secret that boys who got game are assholes. Why? Because they do whatever they can to get what they want.
However, the difference between a player and a wannabe is the flawless way the player executes their tactic.
If you’ve ever been convinced by a salesperson that you truly wanted a product, done something too instinctively, or made choices that seemed entirely out of character, then you’ve had an idea planted in your mind. Here’s how it’s done.
Reverse Psychology Vs. Passive-Aggressiveness
Reverse psychology has become an enormous cliché. It’s been pandered to death and killed through media repetition. The problem is that most people get completely the wrong idea and say crap like I don’t care if you want to go risk your life jumping out of a plane” to try and convince someone not to go skydiving.
This isn’t reverse psychology—it’s plain passive-aggressiveness. Instead of coming off charismatic or persuasive, you just come off as a huge dick.
Everyone knows what the hell passive-aggression is. Your mother does it all the time. The classic “If everyone jumped off a cliff would you do it too?” example is one you hear all the time.
So let’s leave that all behind and start from scratch. If you’re going to use logic reversals in your favor, you need to be subtle. You also need to be fast. You cannot convince someone by going, “hey man, remember that argument we had 30 minutes ago? I have a sweet rebuttal”.
No. Hell no.
Let’s say you want your roommate to do the dishes because it’s his or her turn. There’s always this approach:
“Hey, would you mind doing the dishes? It’s your turn.”
Psh. You can already see shit unfolding.
Or the presumed ‘reverse psychology’ (i.e. passive-aggressive)
“Wow, this pile of dishes is getting so big. But I can’t touch it until next month. Whatever will I do?”
Let’s just say your roommate is lazy. So it ain’t gonna work.
Let’s try this:
“Hey, I’ve decided I don’t want to do the dishes anymore and am just going to start buying disposable stuff. Is that cool with you? If you want to give me some money, I can pick up extras for you, too.”
What this does is present the crappy alternative to not doing the dishes without placing any blame. Rather than being preoccupied with an accusation, your roommate is left to only consider the alternative. This is how reverse psychology can be effective, so long as you say it like you mean it.
Reverse Psychology on Women
Now how do we apply reverse psychology in dating and relationships?
It’s hard to teach what to exactly say, as each situation is different. It can be something subtle and innocent as:
“Hey, since we go in the same direction each morning, why don’t we split a cab?”
See, now a chance to save costs comes into mind. The alternative is paying full price every day for whatever length of time. Instead of it being normal routine vs. hanging out with you for 20 minutes in a cab, it becomes either half fare or full cab fare.
You can see the math.
And you can probably see or feel the guilt that may form around this. You are consciously manipulating another person. Control that emotion.
Don’t feel guilty because women do this to us ALL the time.
Ever ended up regularly helping a girl do their homework, or do favours for them, only to have them thank you really profusely during the moment, and then afterwards pretend like you didn’t exist?
Reverse psychology my friend.
If you ever confront them, which many don’t, they will go, “I never really asked you to do THAT much. I only asked for a little help. It’s not my fault you decided to spend hours/days/weeks/money trying to go over the top. Arrogant much?”
Women can get away with saying shit like that. Men can’t. So let’s throw their reverse psychology right back at them, shall we?
Those feelings of guilt? Toss it aside. And hey, if ultimately you get the girl and you know you will treat her right, all the more power to you.
The results justify the means. This is war.
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